WILLIAM’S FAILURE

Audio-book Review
By Chet Yarbrough

(Blog:awalkingdelight)
Website: chetyarbrough.com

The Kid (see previous review for 2/3rds of this critique)The Kid

Written by: Ben Bradlee, Jr.

Narration by:  Dave Mallow

TED WILLIAMS (THE CONSUMATE FISHERMAN)
TED WILLIAMS (THE CONSUMMATE FISHERMAN)
TED WILLIAMS (1918-2002, NUMBER 9 FOR THE BOSTON RED SOX, PLAYED 1939-1942 AND 1946-1960)
TED WILLIAMS (1918-2002, NUMBER 9 FOR THE BOSTON RED SOX, PLAYED 1939-1942 AND 1946-1960)

Nearly two-thirds of “The Kid” is about Ted Williams as an extraordinary ballplayer, fisherman, and sports spokesman; the remaining third details Williams’ failure as a husband and father.   Ted Williams marries three times, and divorces three times; he philanders as a husband, and ignores the early lives of his three children; i.e. the first from wife number one; the two others from wife number three.

BEN BRADLEE, JR. (AUTHOR, WRITER-EDITOR FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE)
BEN BRADLEE, JR. (AUTHOR, WRITER-EDITOR FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE)

Ben Bradlee, Jr. pulls no punches in recounting parts of Ted Williams’ life that Williams would likely regret.  After finishing Bradlee’s book, one believes Williams would lament mistakes made in his family life.  Williams’ drive for perfection and fragile self-confidence left little time for a wife’s needs, or a child’s parenting.

DORIS SOULE (TED WILLIAMS 1ST WIFE)
DORIS SOULE (TED WILLIAMS 1ST WIFE)

The price of Williams’ obsession for “being the best” is three divorces, an older daughter that rebels against convention, a son that feels entitled, and a daughter who idolizes, fears, and desires her father’s attention.  All of Williams’ wives are beautiful but a handsome husband with a beautiful wife is shown by Bradlee’s story to be a small part of a happy marriage.

 

LEE HOWARD (TED WILLIAMS 2ND WIFE)
LEE HOWARD (TED WILLIAMS 2ND WIFE)
DOLRES WETACH AND JOHN-HENRY WILLIAMS, TED WILLIAMS' ONLY SON.
DOLRES WETACH AND JOHN-HENRY WILLIAMS, TED WILLIAMS’ ONLY SON.

Bradlee suggests infidelity, anger, and single-minded focus destine Ted Williams to divorce.  Williams seems only able to maintain a relationship with a woman who tolerates his imperfections; not as a sycophant, but as an ally; i.e. a woman who complements his strengths and accepts his weaknesses.  Only one woman, whom he does not marry, fulfills that description; i.e. his lifelong admirer, and late life companion, Louise Kaufman.

TED WILLIAMS & LOUIS KAUFMAN (MS. KAUFMAN DIED 1993)
TED WILLIAMS & LOUIS KAUFMAN (MS. KAUFMAN DIED 1993)
BOBBY-JO WILLIAMS FERRELL AND HUSBAND MARK (TED WILLIAMS DAUGHTER FROM HIS FIRST MARRIAGE)
BOBBY-JO WILLIAMS FERRELL AND HUSBAND MARK (TED WILLIAMS DAUGHTER FROM HIS FIRST MARRIAGE)
JOHN-HENRY WILLIAMS (1968-2004)
JOHN-HENRY WILLIAMS (1968-2004, Dies from leukemia at the age of 35)

Bradlee exposes raw facts about Williams’ children.  His oldest child, Bobby-Jo, is committed to a psychiatric ward for mental instability, then released, gets married, philanders, becomes an alcoholic, has two children, divorces, and is disowned by Williams.  Williams only boy, John-Henry, is characterized as a thief that steals his mother’s paintings, borrows money against Ted Williams’ name (without his knowledge), and fails to pay it back; then lies about it.  John-Henry trades on his father’s reputation as though an entitled royal.  Bradlee tells a story of John-Henry’s selling signed memorabilia while bragging about his ability to forge Ted William’s name.

CLAUDIA WILLIAMS (WROTE A MEMOIR-MY FATHER-ABOUT TED WILLIAMS)
CLAUDIA WILLIAMS (WROTE A MEMOIR-MY FATHER-ABOUT TED WILLIAMS)

Claudia, John-Henry’s sister, refuses to believe John-Henry forged any of Williams’ signatures.  Claudia remains above the fray until the last years of William’s life.  She chooses to make her own way in life by living abroad, learning French and German, and establishing her own identity without the influence of her father’s reputation.

Late in Williams’ life, Bradlee shows Williams expresses love for John-Henry and Claudia but, in the progress of their maturity, they assert their independence either in self-interested affection or rebellion.  Fatherly influence in his children’s early life seems limited.  William’s way of living and acquired wealth are his most pronounced paternal influences.

As his first child, Bobby Jo, flirts with insanity, Williams provides financial support but very little personal attention.  At the end of his life, Williams removes Bobby Jo from his will, except for a $200,000 life insurance annuity.  Bradlee infers Williams had little time for his children until retired from baseball.  Even then, professional fishing took the place of fatherhood; at least, until much later in Williams’ life.  As an example of William’s love for his children, Bradlee notes Williams proudly attends a college graduation ceremony for his son and sheds prideful tears for John-Henry’s accomplishment.  Later, it becomes known that John-Henry did not really graduate.  He is 3 credits short; e.g. one of several deceptions by John-Henry that are forgiven or discounted by Williams.

The final chapters of Bradlee’s book deal with the Alcor decapitation and cryonics preservation of Ted Williams’ head.  One might characterize this episode as the final defilement of Ted Williams’ legend or John-Henry’s heart-felt love for his father.  Bradlee’s evidence suggests the former more than the latter.

John-Henry’s soul seems destined to dwell near the bottom of Dante’s hell.  Bradlee’s record of Williams’ life suggests John-Henry’s life reeks of dishonesty while inadvertently betraying Ted Williams’ fame and name.  Bradlee’s biography of Ted Williams ends sadly with the picture of a ravaged legend that appears to have sacrificed too much to become the greatest hitter in baseball.  Bradlee shows Ted Williams as a towering sports figure but a tiny, unimpressive husband and father.  Both Ted Williams and his son, albeit in different ways, violate Aristotle’s ethic of “moderation in all things”.

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